Bienestar Interview
On Wednesday, Angela and Kelly and I went with Clara to Bienestar, the government social agency in Bogota. We had an interview with a social worker in order to get us onto the court docket. By next week, we will find out which of 20 or so city courts that our case will be assigned to. This will largely determine our waiting time, since according to Clara and Maria Theresa, there are speedy courts and slow courts. You can see what Angela thought of the outing, although it really wasn't that bad, and she smiled right on cue for the social worker. The interview was very short, and I think they were more concerned about giving us the once-over visually, than getting any interesting information out of us, as well as making certain that all of our papers were in order.
We were sharing the waiting room with two women who were there to finalize the giving up of their babies for adoption. I have never seen expressions quite like ones on their faces. They were very sad, but at the same time, composed, strong, and resolute. We will never forget that Angela's birth mother had to go through the same difficult process not long ago.
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I am trying to hold back the tears but Angela's "birth mother" is truly an angel. It takes a very strong person to do the right thing for their child-Angela has been given a true gift -you and Kelly. I speak from my own experience and she will know when she is much older how blessed she is and all the people who cared enough to give her the best life she could have. Adopted children are the luckiest children in the world- they were chosen.
All my love to you
Krissy
Posted by: Krissy | July 31, 2004 10:47 AM
I agree with Krissy. Each time I read I get tears in my eyes. How hard it is for the birth mother and how blessed we are to have her as a part of our family. Love you all, Mom
Posted by: Lynda Pedersen | August 2, 2004 01:04 PM